musician-664432_960_720-300x200There is the difference between ejaculation and orgasm, what many men don’t know is that there is a whole wide world beyond ejaculation; it is the intense sexual pleasure of orgasm.

Really, orgasm can seem elusive or sometimes impossible to achieve. But with proper knowledge, you will find out it is not difficult. Below are tips to kick your pleasure into overdrive:

Don’t skip foreplay

Of course, you wouldn’t want to run a race without warming up first. It is just the same for an amazing bedroom finish. I know you can’t wait to get in and get out but to optimize your sexual pleasure; you need to get warmed up. Foreplay is an amazing way to get warmed up in sex. Take your time touching and teasing. Men do climax before women, but a good foreplay can help delay the urge and eventually ensure a mind- Blowing orgasm.

Prostate massage

The prostate is the male equivalent of the female G-spot. In the male, it is also called the ‘Sacred-spot’. Massaging the prostate releases high amounts of emotional stress, in fact, it is often considered as the emotional sex center of a man. The walnut-sized prostate gland is located directly underneath the bladder. A lot of sensations may be produced by pressing or rubbing the gland through the rectal wall.

The fact is, when it comes to sexual pleasure, prostate massage is one of the best ways for men to get it. Explore what turns you on You can’t tell your partner what to do if you don’t even know your own body. In order to be more active, find things that turn you on and bring you closer to orgasm. If you want to know how to orgasm every time you sex, you need to get to know your body intimately.

Talk to your partner about these things that turns you one, and during sex, you can explore them yourselves, instead of just doing the routine when it comes to sex. Spend a few nights alone in bed learning about what you enjoy, what turns you on and what brings you closer to orgasm.

Delay Gratification

Men can sometimes go from erection to ejaculation really quickly and rush through it, but it’s important to take your time. Enjoy the full sexual experience, and slowly build up to your orgasm. The eventual orgasm will be so worth the wait. When you bring yourself close to climax and then stop, you build up a way bigger, more intense orgasm.

Try prolonging the feeling of arousal and thrust until you feel the sexual energy build and then stop. Start to squeeze the tip or base of the penis until you feel the urge to come subside.This method will increase and sustain that delicious feeling of pleasure, and overall sexual stamina.

Or if you are feeling it’s too late you can still orgasm without ejaculating if you know where the million dollar spot is in your body.

Don’t Be Afraid Of Trying Things

Yes, boredom is bad for your sex life; in fact, it kills sex drive more than anything else. To counteract this routine and potential boredom, you need to constantly try new things, which will lead to mind-blowing sexual pleasure.

Beyond the conventional mode of sexual activities, you and your partner can start by touching, licking, biting the nipples, thighs, belly, and the entire penis, from the base, up to the shaft and tip, the perineum and scrotum, This helps to expand the boundaries or routine of sex to include new and blended level of bliss.