Young man thinking about impotency problems and prostateIn a passionate, loving relationship that exists between a man and a woman, passionate lovemaking that involves sexual intercourse and the exchange of fluids is the only recognized bond that consummates the relationship.

This sexual contact is expected to be fulfilling to both parties, and where one participant feels unfulfilled, unsatisfied and neglected, she will seek other avenues for gratification.

Premature ejaculation in men is a condition where a man ejaculates too quickly during sex, and in the process, causing distress to his partner. The man is unable to rein in the rhythmic forces that trigger the ejaculation process. The process is triggered shortly after the man penetrates the woman and lasts less than two minutes.

It’s not easy to know how long “normal” sex should last. Studies conducted on around 600 couples discovered that the average time between penetration of the penis into the woman’s vagina and ejaculation were five and a half minutes. But it’s possible for a couple to face this distressing problem squarely and decide what their reasonable delay time should be.

And especially the woman because on many occasions, she’s the one left unfulfilled. They can plan on an acceptable plan that will make them climax simultaneously thus leaving everyone happy. But if both couples can orgasm together shortly after penetration, it no longer becomes a problem. And need not warrant investigation and treatment.

Unfortunately, both men and women are wired differently, and many times they don’t orgasm together. Apart from the inability to control an orgasm, other causes of premature ejaculation can be attributed to medical issues, such as prostate cancer or hypothyroidism, which can cause premature ejaculation. Stress emanating work, money issues or the way the couple relates can also cause premature ejaculation to develop.

How about a random girl? When having sex with a random girl, using the “start-stop” method is the most efficient way to delay ejaculation and have control over premature ejaculation. It involves gently penetrating the girl until the hilt of your penis reaches the lips of her vagina. Without any thrusts at this stage, try rubbing the base of your penis against her vaginal lips until she is thoroughly aroused and wet. Chances are she may get an orgasm before you. This is a good sign.

Making a random girl get an orgasm before you make you gain even more confidence in your attempts to hold on to your orgasmic impulses. Continue rubbing the base of your penis against her, as you combine this with going in and withdrawing, as the tip of your penis hovers around her vaginal opening, stimulating your penis and stopping just about the moment the sensations to ejaculate begin to build up.

Halt the stimulation for 20 to 40 seconds and start again the moment the feelings ebb a little, and you feel you’re in control. If the urge to shoot is too strong, you may withdraw your penis entirely and let it cool down a bit.

Stopping and resting – Repeat the process 4 – 5 times, stopping and resting, to catch your breath every time the onset of an orgasm approaches. Experienced men use these resting episodes by diverting the climax-rich sensations by starting small talk with the girl, who is apparently a complete stranger, by asking her about herself, her favorite food, drinks, clothes, and perfume.

Another option is to think about something boring, distracting or even annoying.

By this time if you’re lucky, she may get a second orgasm because the tip of your penis alone against her vaginal lips is enough to drive her wild while your orgasm is still knocking at the door. But just not to punish yourself unnecessarily, because sometimes denied pleasure can mean justice denied, when her orgasm is about to end, you can brace yourself for one massive lunge, aim, and thrust up to the deepest reaches of her womanhood, and shoot your jizz as if it’s the last thing you do under the sun.

The squeeze method – Another method that works pretty well with random girls is the squeeze technique. This involves squeezing the penis in the area between the glans and the shaft moments before you ejaculate. This makes the sensations go numb momentarily, affecting your erection, but you can get easily aroused again.

You may squeeze yourself, or since you’re already intimate with the random girl, ask her to use her fingers to tap underneath your glans gently. The big plus with the squeeze method is that when practiced repeatedly, you’re able to identify the critical moment when you’re about to come. And this will make you easily control your impulses and future premature ejaculation.

Are there other options? Yap! Taking a deep breath before ejaculation has been known to delay orgasm in some men. Although it’s still debatable how popular and efficient this method is. But it does no harm to try. It has also been claimed that longer foreplay, particularly with strangers, can make you delay ejaculating and although no scientific data is backing this claim, it has to do with the chemistry between two people.

Taking a deep breath before ejaculation has been known to delay orgasm in some men. Although it’s still debatable how popular and efficient this method is. But it does no harm to try. It has also been claimed that longer foreplay, particularly with strangers, can make you delay ejaculating and although no scientific data is backing this claim, it has to do with the chemistry between two people.

It’s good to recognize the more pressure men feel during sex, whether with a random girl or a regular, the more likely they’ll suffer from premature ejaculation. Communication can be an effective remedy to help overcome many issues and any discrepancies that could exist between you and your new girl.

Try shifting and changing positions. You can also let the random girl suggest any new tricks that can help delay your ejaculation. There are claims that wearing thick condoms can help delay ejaculations for men with sensitive penises. Prescription medication while there’s no known cure for premature ejaculation, there are exercises and treatments you can use to control it. To most men, the trick of what actually works is a combination of the techniques mentioned above together with psychological therapy. Many times, the culprit is stress and anxiety.

But if you must part with money to please a random girl, there are two very practical solutions: The first is the EMLA cream, that works to numb the sensations your penis experiences, so you don’t get to feel the onset of an orgasm sooner but much later. The second option is Dapoxetine, which is marketed as Priligy and is packaged as an oral tablet that you take before sex. It claimed to make men delay at least three times than usual before ejaculating. It’s available upon prescription.

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